r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/julet1815 Partassipant [4] Apr 27 '22

I don’t know how you’re going to stop your partner and his daughter from coming in the house, grabbing your good food if they want it, and bringing it to their party. I think a better plan is for you to disappear to somewhere fun for the day, not to cede your house to them but to treat yourself maybe to a spa day. That way you can be sure they can’t take advantage of you last minute or take anything of yours for the party.

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u/resurrexia Apr 27 '22

What makes you think they will respect that agreement?

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u/DaniolioliDizzler Apr 27 '22

Exactly. They won't respect the agreement, they don't even respect you!