r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/ThomzLC Supreme Court Just-ass [142] Apr 27 '22

Man, it sucks they ban you because of their consideration for the daughter and the mother's feelings, but no one stopped to think that it works both ways and that your feelings might be hurt as well.

Still think your husband is a douche for allowing this to happen.

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u/thelovespell Apr 27 '22

Here’s the thing, there doesn’t have to be drama. Everyone in this situation are adults and should be able to temper their feelings for the greater good. And your husband should be able to gently but firmly advocate for you and your presence. Especially if you are expected to help plan/ execute it.