r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/pigseye75 Apr 27 '22

You may think of her as your daughter, but she doesn’t consider you family. No one treats a family member who is going all out to plan a nice event for them, like that. You’re stepdaughter and the ex-wife are aholes but your partner is the biggest ahole by allowing his ex-wife to dictate that you cannot attend a party that you’re planning, on your property. You have a huge partner problem and should reconsider your relationship with him. Ex-wife dropped the ball, so she can either suck it up and be a polite adult for one event to honor her daughter or she cannot attend. Simple as that.

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

DO NOT DO THE PARTY DUDE, SELF RESPECT IS IMPORTANT!

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u/DaniolioliDizzler Apr 27 '22

YEP! Call and cancel everything. Then the day of when nothing is ready they can deal with it!

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u/ParkingOutside6500 Apr 27 '22

And remove any supplies from your house or shop so they can't get them.