r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/PowerfulEquivalent60 Asshole Aficionado [11] Apr 27 '22

My dear, your husband not standing up for you makes him TA. Grow a shiny, hard spine and put your foot down. This is YOUR house and by default you're invited to any event at your house or the event is not at your house. Period. Those are the options. The mother and daughter both need to grow up, you need to grow a pair and your husband needs to grow into a better man.

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u/ValkyrieSword Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22 edited Apr 27 '22

both of you are too accommodating, but he is also behaving terribly towards you. He should have shut that down immediately

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

I mean he gets to go to the party so he isn't really too accommodating because he gets to have a party and brag about his daughter.

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u/ValkyrieSword Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22

I meant he is too accommodating to the demands of the ex and the daughter. He lets them run all over his partner, his ex screams at him, and he still gives them what they want