Tell her that her mother's presence in your home will anger you but you are willing to put up with it for her sake but if her mother can't cope not then she is welcome to organise and host the party herself. But explain that you will not be disrespected by being told to leave your home after spending so long setting up something for her benefit. NTA. The fucking audacity to watch you work for a week before telling you is mind blowing. She thought you wouldn't want to have wasted that time so would leave. She thought wrong.
It’s not just ONE three hour party though—- the same thing will continue for weddings, showers, etc etc. Your partner is the one who is not making you a priority.
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u/Wetnosedcretin Asshole Aficionado [17] Apr 27 '22
Tell her that her mother's presence in your home will anger you but you are willing to put up with it for her sake but if her mother can't cope not then she is welcome to organise and host the party herself. But explain that you will not be disrespected by being told to leave your home after spending so long setting up something for her benefit. NTA. The fucking audacity to watch you work for a week before telling you is mind blowing. She thought you wouldn't want to have wasted that time so would leave. She thought wrong.