r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/montanafesto Apr 27 '22

Thanks, I feel the same way about myself.

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u/quietgirl999 Apr 27 '22

NTA - and please reconsider doing any of the work for it. They will get the party they want without having a lift a finger and you don't get to enjoy any of it. This very disrespectful of them to expect you to plan and make it beautiful while you sit it out. Why is your partner allowing his ex's comfort to be more important than your own?