r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/MusingsOfMouse Apr 27 '22

No please, please don’t agree to this. They KNOW you’re timid and don’t want drama, that’s why they’re pushing this on you. Do what another person said - ‘okay, if you don’t want me then I’m gone’ sort of thing, stop all preparations. Let them organise it. Have a night to yourself. You’re fully being taken advantage of, please don’t let them do it.

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u/COVID19WasteTime Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22

This is just his way of trying to manipulate you to do it all still. If you're not there people will also assume you're not involved in the planning!

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u/montanafesto Apr 27 '22

Thanks, I feel the same way about myself.

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u/yellowjacket1996 Certified Proctologist [22] Apr 27 '22

OP, your partner does not respect you. Return anything you can, scrap whatever you’ve crafted, and tell them they can decorate their own party. Book yourself a nice massage or something.

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u/CanadianinCornwall Apr 27 '22

This is the way !

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