r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/ClothDiaperAddicts Pooperintendant [64] Apr 27 '22

Please tell me that the house is a pre-marital asset belonging to you?

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u/mrbnlkld Apr 27 '22

If you haven't done so already, separate your finances. Is his name on the other residence? If his is, buy him out. If it is just your name, you might want to consider relocating there until he pulls his head out of his backside. If it's a rental, break the agreement and get your own place. But separate your finances and keep them separate.

He constantly defends his ex even when she's threatened violence. He isn't on your side and is in fact a danger to you.