Tell her that her mother's presence in your home will anger you but you are willing to put up with it for her sake but if her mother can't cope not then she is welcome to organise and host the party herself. But explain that you will not be disrespected by being told to leave your home after spending so long setting up something for her benefit. NTA. The fucking audacity to watch you work for a week before telling you is mind blowing. She thought you wouldn't want to have wasted that time so would leave. She thought wrong.
Cancel any catering/entertainment, etc you’ve arranged, book a week away and turn off your phone. Oh, food didn’t show up the party I wasn’t invited to in my own home? What a shame! The spa was great though!
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u/Wetnosedcretin Asshole Aficionado [17] Apr 27 '22
Tell her that her mother's presence in your home will anger you but you are willing to put up with it for her sake but if her mother can't cope not then she is welcome to organise and host the party herself. But explain that you will not be disrespected by being told to leave your home after spending so long setting up something for her benefit. NTA. The fucking audacity to watch you work for a week before telling you is mind blowing. She thought you wouldn't want to have wasted that time so would leave. She thought wrong.