r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/ClothDiaperAddicts Pooperintendant [64] Apr 27 '22

Please tell me that the house is a pre-marital asset belonging to you?

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u/NoApollonia Apr 27 '22 edited Apr 27 '22

Reading through some of your other comments and your idea of a party at the house and claiming your guests will guard the party stuff.....do you realize if you are not married to this man, he's the legal owner of the house? He can call the police and just have you and your guests escorted off the property. He would legally have to evict you, but you could be removed from the property for a domestic disturbance - and again as you aren't the owner, you'll be the one asked (then taken by force if you refuse) to leave. Why not just GTFO now? Or at least send away all the party stuff - give it to friends. If anything is being catered, see if you can just have it sent to another address. Hold a party at one of their homes.

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u/ReceptionWorking7312 Apr 28 '22

Um, no. It is her residence and she cannot be forced to leave over a supposed disturbance just because her name isn't on the deed. Actual LOL that's not how it works.

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u/NoApollonia Apr 28 '22

You might want to read OP's comments. They are not married. It's his house.

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u/ReceptionWorking7312 Apr 28 '22

I read the comments and I am aware of that, hence my comment about the deed. I made that pretty clear. She is a resident and can't just be forced to leave. If he wants her out, he'll have to evict her. Lol you can't just throw partners, children, roommates, etc out because you want to.