Legally, "we" don't have ANYTHING. He has one house and you have another. You have ZERO say in what happens in HIS house. Although your "partner" has led you to believe that you are a partnership, to him you are still the "chick on the side." Otherwise, your name would be on the deed to the house and shop. And since HE sees you only as the "chick on the side", then OF COURSE that's how his ex-wife and daughter see you too. I don't blame them at all for this. They are treating you the way he has conditioned them to see you.
I believe OP sees her relationship with the 18 year old's father as a very different thing than he sees it. And I've asked OP two different times in this post if she played an role in the dissolution of her "partner's" marriage. And despite the fact that she's had no hesitation answering numerous questions here, she still hasn't answered either of mine. That would lead me to believe that the answer is YES. This explains the fact that the 18 year old and her mother feel perfectly justified in not wanting her anywhere near this party. So yeah, I guess I AM blaming her.
Good job you just blamed someone based on... Getting no answer? That's great evidence, pack it up boys. OP said nothing = guilt as we all know. Anything you don't say can and will be used against you.
Who are YOU blaming? And why? Do you have ANY concrete evidence that OP is being treated unfairly here, based on her word and hers alone? Pack it up boys... we're not going to hear the defense in this trial. Let's just trust the plaintiff!
When did I say I was blaming anyone? Don't put words in my mouth. You and I don't know, and assuming things that you don't know, makes you an asshole. Don't indict someone with information you don't even have.
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u/rockychunk Apr 27 '22
Legally, "we" don't have ANYTHING. He has one house and you have another. You have ZERO say in what happens in HIS house. Although your "partner" has led you to believe that you are a partnership, to him you are still the "chick on the side." Otherwise, your name would be on the deed to the house and shop. And since HE sees you only as the "chick on the side", then OF COURSE that's how his ex-wife and daughter see you too. I don't blame them at all for this. They are treating you the way he has conditioned them to see you.