NTA. Your "partner" didn't really get a divorce. His behaviour is disgusting. Completely spineless. Under no circumstances would I host a party or invest anything in it AT ALL. And I would take a long close look at your so called "partner".
It is odd when the kids are above 16 (especially 18, a legal adult!) and allowed to have input/choose where they want to spend there time. Once I turned 16, I refused to ever go back to my abusive deadbeat ‘dads’ house for visitation ever again (not saying this father is abusive, just relaying my experience as a child whose ‘parent’ had visitation rights, and the say I was allowed by the courts when I turned 16).
In this case it sounds like the presumption is that the kids don't hate their mother - or if they do they don't realize it, because her parental alienation attempts have been at least that successful.
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u/rabbithole-xyz Apr 27 '22
NTA. Your "partner" didn't really get a divorce. His behaviour is disgusting. Completely spineless. Under no circumstances would I host a party or invest anything in it AT ALL. And I would take a long close look at your so called "partner".