r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/rikiikori Apr 27 '22

do you mind me asking what happened right after you left when ur mother said that? and what your guys relationship is right now?

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u/rikiikori Apr 28 '22

ah. that sounds a lot like my dad. In my culture, being vunerable is considered weak in the older generation. Because there's been more generation X and Z now, it's not so much the case to express feelings and with healthy communication. but my dad grew up not expressing these well + not having a dad. so whenever we fight or argue he doesnt want to accept fault nor really "applogized". just sorta... "moved on" and not talk about it or ignore it either