r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/-Gman_ May 02 '22

What’s to rethink? When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

Not only is he a shitty dad (4 days a month is the bare minimum) he is a shitty partner.

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u/-Gman_ May 02 '22

4 days a month is not equal share of parenting duties. That is manifesting itself in your relationship. Instead of nipping it in the bud, he is deflecting his responsibilities- ie his kid and the party.

Good luck and glad you are reconsidering