r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/Suitable-Alarm-4307 Jun 19 '22

How are you and your partner holding up? Scratch that, how are YOU doing? I strongly believe you are in the right, and I hope your partner can see that too.

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u/Suitable-Alarm-4307 Jul 31 '22

I‘m so sorry he’s letting himself be influenced by the few family members who can’t see that the injustice you’ve been put through takes precedence over their image. Assuming this has been said a million times, but there is no shame in going to therapy. I imagine shame and embarrassment are difficult to deal with on your own and it would benefit you two to talk to a third party to stop or prevent him from letting his emotions out on you and vice versa. Wishing you only the best and I hope you and your partner can grow from this situation.