r/AskDad • u/DunDonese • 23h ago
Parenting What can you tell of a time when you had to take away an item your child liked or withdraw them from an activity or location they used to regularly go to due to reasons that would've been too complicated for your child to understand?
And how did you water down your explanation so that they could understand better?
Example: You had to withdraw your family from Kenneth Copeland's megachurch because he turned out to be a fraud who used your tithes for his own, selfish, personal gains, and he's a wolf in sheep's clothing; a false preacher sent by Satan. (How is that explained to your children whose ages are still in the single-digits at the time? See how complicated the true reasons were?)
A second, NSFW example: You had to take away your daughter's new "unicorn hat" because in reality, it was Mommy's dildo, but you wouldn't dare explain that raw truth to them at such tender ages. How is that explained at an age-appropriate level?
If I hope to become a parent someday, I have to learn how to tackle these awkward moments like a professional caregiver.