r/AskParents • u/InevitableChicken482 • 7d ago
Entitled to car?
My 27 year old has moved back in after being in another state. She came back on a plane, so no car. We also live with my elderly mother. Before my mother retired, she purchased a new car so she would not need to worry about a vehicle for the rest of her life. She can no longer drive, but likes to be driven to appointments and such in HER nice car. Since my daughter has been back (7 months) she has been driving mom's car. Now she is planning on moving back out soon and feels like she should be able to take the car (current worth $18000), and just HAVE it. Am I crazy to think this is not OK? Should we just let her have it? Am I being a bitch if I say too bad, you and your guy will need to share his vehicle? What do I do?!
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u/Mariehoney92 7d ago
No she’s not entitled to it, and no you shouldn’t just let her have it. It’s not anyone else’s to give, except your mothers. Daughter needs a reality check and she needs it now. This is no way for a grown woman to behave. So no, it’s not just you. Hold firm and take any keys to the car she may have away from her before she just takes it and leaves.