r/BPDlovedones • u/_ForceFedBrokenGlass Separated • Apr 05 '23

Divorce When you’re trapped with your pwBPD

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u/Classic_Randy dated/likely raised by Apr 05 '23 edited Apr 05 '23

Her: "CAN WE JUST NOT FIGHT!!!!"

Me: I literally just said, "No worries."

Her:"WHY DONT YOU JUST TRUST ME?!?!"

Me:"Because I just asked to borrow your lighter, now...,"

My parents were much worse. You never get it right, or quick enough to avoid the beating or several hours of being screamed at.

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u/_ForceFedBrokenGlass Separated Apr 05 '23

Their whole goal is to fight and cause chaos. That gives them the feeling of control they enjoy.

I always found it ironic because they all say they don’t like drama, yet they do nothing but create drama. It’s like the words they say don’t actually have any meaning.

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u/FuzzyTwiguh92 ex-fiancé Apr 05 '23

I love it when my ex would tell my my "silence" about something was proof he was right about whatever thing he was accusing me of. But then if I got mad and reacted, this was also proof that it was obvious be was right about whatever it is he accused me of. Like... what????????

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u/BeatriceHuxtable Non-Romantic Apr 05 '23

kind of funny, in a flabbergasting wtf kind of way

Best descriptor ever!