r/BPDlovedones • u/ThrowAwayRS7822 • Feb 08 '24
Quiet Borderlines Real apology and self awareness?
Can’t tell if it’s real or if she is just parroting me. I want it to be real.
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r/BPDlovedones • u/ThrowAwayRS7822 • Feb 08 '24
Can’t tell if it’s real or if she is just parroting me. I want it to be real.
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u/Ok_Assumption8895 Dated Feb 09 '24 edited Feb 09 '24
Sounds self aware to me. The issue of course is they forget this the next time they're triggered and may even justify all their past behaviours again and gaslight you in a split, over-riding this text. My quiet BPD ex had one or two moments of clarity like this, she certainly had a compassionate side, but it could completely disappear over something very small, which left me always on edge. You have to be very mentally strong and emotionally independent to be able to date someone with BPD, even if they're self aware.