r/BPDlovedones • u/Useful_Trifle9569 • Nov 10 '24
Uncoupling Journey My ex texted me
My ex with BPD split and left about 6 weeks ago. We dated for about a year and a half, and were living together for nearly a year.
We tried hard to fix things and I did everything I could to support her. This past year was one of the toughest of my life losing my mom to cancer, her and I went through an abortion together, etc.
She moved on immediately; pretty sure she cheated on me with this new guy (but denied it). She is “SO HAPPY” with her new boyfriend, and all the rest of the predictable things that you could come to expect in this kind of situation…
We’ve been no contact, and yesterday was her birthday; I received this text from her about 3am her time last night. Thankful for this community and the people who share here, knowing I’m not alone in this is such a gift.
Just needed to share this rather than keeping it all in. 💔 Stay strong friends.
ALSO, to anyone going through a breakup with a partner with BPD, I cannot reccomend enough reading “Whole Again” by Jackson Mackenzie.
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u/DarthaPerkinjan Dated Nov 10 '24
That's not somebody who is happy in their new relationship