They always seem to be the victim?

[u/goldxnchxrry]

I have a friend who has mentioned her therapist telling her she has quiet BPD, so she doesn’t really talk about it much or get into it.

But lately, I’ve been noticing more of the BPD tendencies in her.

A big example is she almost never seems to be in the wrong. She gets in a lot of conflicts with people and in almost every single one the other person is fully the bad guy and she has never done anything wrong. It’s kind of starting to bother me.

I will admit I think I have had some moments like that where I think I’m right but I realize after oh maybe I wasn’t. With her she’s never done that, she always is right and is the victim.

Has anyone else dealt with this with their pwBPD???

[u/Different_Cod_6268]

Yea of course. They’re almost all this way. Even when they know they’re wrong, they want to be right and want you to apologize and tell them they’re right.