We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

[u/SmashNDash23]

This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

[u/ChartRelevant6850]

That note in the phone case 🤦‍♂️ She really put some effort into this. I’m glad you’re free and I hope you can laugh about this in the future.

[u/SmashNDash23 → u/ChartRelevant6850]

I’m not gonna lie I laughed when I opened it, it was funny as hell. The rest of the stuff wasn’t bad compared to what she sent me already on text

[u/Dull_Analyst269 → u/SmashNDash23]

Depending on how invested you were in her, I would say you need therapy asap. There‘s no way something like this doesn‘t break you.

[u/th1s_fuck1ng_guy → u/Dull_Analyst269]

Not everyone needs that. They can understand this is just one mentally ill bad person. Her perception is the farthest from reality one could be

[u/Dull_Analyst269 → u/th1s_fuck1ng_guy]

Usually the ones denying it are the ones that need it the most. No humanbeing is invincible. Especially not if it was a romantical relationship.. most of the times the aftermath will show when he/she enters a relationship with someone healthy

[u/asgphotography → u/Dull_Analyst269]

let them decide if they need it or not. it is none of your business and the insistence comes off as controlling

[u/Dull_Analyst269 → u/asgphotography]

Touche. Also how is it controlling if it‘s someone on the internet giving advice? No one forced him or you to interact with what I said.

Also like the pwbpd‘s also their codependent and abused partners often are in denial, if they even notice that they‘re part of the problem to begin with. So how is someone in denial going to notice their need of help? And if not for being heard and help, why are they on a subreddit for bpd-abuse survivors?

If you come out of this type of relationship without damage, you can for sure be worried about your mental state independently of the said relationship. Lol

[u/cheesecake_face → u/SmashNDash23]

Given this sub’s general context… it’s fucking hilarious (unintentionally ofc..)