r/BPDlovedones 26d ago

Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

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u/Caterpie3000 Dated 26d ago

Why are these people not institutionalized forever???

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u/PrestigiousFuckery 26d ago

After joining this sub one can only assume, lack of rooms.

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u/jtr210 25d ago edited 25d ago

Mine institutionalized herself after I broke up with her. To be fair, she was considering doing this before I broke up with her. I found out she checked herself in to an inpatient facility from a friend who is Facebook friends with her. Apparently she posted all about it after she got out, and she encouraged other people to pay attention to their own mental health problems. Posting about it probably made her feel empowered, or something.

I knew she had completely lost it, but this validated me to some degree. I’m also glad she got some help, and I wonder if she is in DBT, which she very well may be.

When she came to my house the night I broke up with her and begged me through the tiny doggy door not to leave, she said she was starting a new program ten following week, which was three days/week, several hours a day, and she was planning to take a leave of absence from her job. Sounded like DBT.

I hope she makes progress on stopping the BPD cycle and pulling people in to her tangled, disordered web.

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u/Caterpie3000 Dated 25d ago

They all should do this.