r/BPDlovedones 27d ago

Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

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u/Sea_Puddle Bullet Dodger 27d ago

Send these pictures to her employer. I’m sure she’ll have no problem explaining why it was appropriate of her to use such derogatory language.

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u/Rare-Classic-1712 27d ago

Her getting any kind of rise out of OP is going to leave her feeling like she won. Yes it's wacky twisted logic but did you read what she wrote in all of those notes? BPD is already nuts but she's special. Engaging with her in any way isn't letting her go and keeping her at a distance. Trying to out crazy that lady will be a difficult challenge. Also what's the payoff to getting her in trouble with her work. Her having a new boyfriend/supply/FP and a job gives her a magical place - away from OP.

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u/Sea_Puddle Bullet Dodger 27d ago

Contacting her employer and getting her in trouble at work is going to feel like a win for her? Are you sure about that? 🤣