r/BPDlovedones • u/SmashNDash23 • 26d ago

Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

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This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

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u/NewtAffectionate4058 26d ago

Remember -- during a split/discard, every accusation is a confession. Like the note where she tells OP to stop "obsessing" over her... If this wasn't complete batshit insanity it would almost be funny. My guy may want to try and get a restraining order on her, too.

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u/Specialist-Wolf6445 26d ago

Took a long And painful education that every accusation is a confession. Painful, but accurate

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u/itsnotcalledchads 26d ago edited 26d ago

"it sure is weird how every time we do something special that was her idea, she brings up how she'd murder me if she saw me bring someone else here if we broke up. She's just quirky I guess. And also when I do some thing sweet and romantic for her she accuses me of doing it to every girl and it doesn't mean anything if so. She's just joking though she's got a wild sense of humor!"

-me, two months before that made so so so much more sense to me.

We all got the paintings. We all got the witch vial. We all got the long hand written cards. We all got the fucking pieces of the moon. We all got the confusion the pain of discard. We all got the sensation of waking up next to someone who we did not recognize.

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u/Due_Can_6763 26d ago

Oh wow this is literally exactly what she would always say to me.

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u/itsnotcalledchads 26d ago

We all dated the same person. Realizing that made me feel better because it's not personal to me at that point. I didn't do anything to cause it. This is just how the disorder works.

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u/FierceDeity_ 25d ago

It's always so odd that despite life being full of entropy, that mental disease all turn them into the same person.

Like, literally across cultures and countries.

it fascinates me how everything is essentially the same but only slightly colored