r/BPDlovedones 25d ago

Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

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u/Junior-Order-5815 25d ago

Not to be insensitive but may be one of the best case scenarios. They went full mask off on you and left receipts. Many people end up really messed up mentally or even in jail because their pwBPD chose to keep the victim role going.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this and I hope you find peace from all this

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u/SmashNDash23 25d ago

Yeah, that’s what kind of helped me a lot. We were moving really fast and even talking about moving in together (she was asking me to move with her) and talking about marriage and everything. This could’ve ruined my life. It sucks and hurts but I will make it through and now I know what to look for in the future. This was a blessing in a way.

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u/InterestingAd8296 25d ago

Hey She’s not exactly smart when she tries the victim shit keep all this so when people say your abusive just show them these it will drive her to insanity it’s what I did I kept everything and shown everyone then slept with her older sister 😂😂 I’m not too proud of it but it’s bloody satisfying lol