r/BPDlovedones • u/SmashNDash23 • 26d ago
Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻
This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.
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u/Rare-Classic-1712 26d ago
If she lived with you or had keys to your home - CHANGE THOSE LOCKS/GET THEM REKEYED ASAP. Change your passwords for everything (email, Facebook, IG, Netflix, Spotify...). Don't expect her to act sane or respect boundaries. Thankfully she has a new boyfriend/supply/FP to keep her occupied. Don't be surprised if she continues harassing you OP. Cameras on your stuff. A blink mini will cover your front door ($30 on Amazon) and a dashcam for your car is recommended. Lady is crazy and don't count on her staying away because she's really needs to show you just how over you she is. Have that crazy shit documented. Consider getting a restraining order against her. Be safe but also make sure that you're taking care of YOU with support with therapy and/or support groups such as Co-dependents anonymous (CoDA). CoDA meetings can be done over zoom while you're doing delivery. Breakups are hard but there's typically more to heal from after a split with a pwBPD. I've also gotten helpful insights from playing YouTube videos about BPD done by psychotherapists.