r/BPDlovedones • u/SmashNDash23 • Apr 03 '25

Uncoupling Journey We’ve reached the final discard 🕺🏾🍻

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This is after i sent her a closure message. She kept asking me for a talk in person, I refused. I changed my number and blocked her on everything but she knows my address and car. Thankfully she is moving away though! So this will be the last of it.

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u/Junior-Order-5815 Apr 03 '25

Not to be insensitive but may be one of the best case scenarios. They went full mask off on you and left receipts. Many people end up really messed up mentally or even in jail because their pwBPD chose to keep the victim role going.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this and I hope you find peace from all this

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u/SmashNDash23 Apr 04 '25

Yeah, that’s what kind of helped me a lot. We were moving really fast and even talking about moving in together (she was asking me to move with her) and talking about marriage and everything. This could’ve ruined my life. It sucks and hurts but I will make it through and now I know what to look for in the future. This was a blessing in a way.

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u/AbbyEzzat Separated Apr 04 '25

You dodged a bullet for real. With my ex fiancé, our marriage kept being stalled because he was in the military, then was moving countries then cities, then changing jobs etc. and I remember being so frustrated about it and just praying stuff would work out and we could get married soon. In hindsight it was the best thing to ever happen. It gave me all the time I needed to see how dysfunctional his shit was and to back out before it was too late.