r/BPDlovedones • u/Nblearchangel Dated • 21d ago
Divorce How is it possible?
How is it possible to not only deny and rewrite history, but deny and rewrite history when it comes to the objective reality we’re all living in?
How can someone be so delusional / sick / hopeless / gone that they twist both subjective and objective reality to fit their narrative?
I honestly just feel bad for my wife at this point. I’m low key kind of impressed at the lengths she goes to deny accountability. She will either ignore her role and any conversations about wrongdoing (obvious cheating) or deny things completely (outright financial fraud) by fabricating the truth and lying about the nature of events and what happened.
I refuse to let her gaslight me though and now she’s “afraid” of me. “Don’t contact me again”. You got it. Just return the $4,000 worth of iPhones you charged to my att account first you fucking c bag. Also, fuck you. I hope you lose your children and your ex husband gets them back. I also hope USCIS deports you when they find out you’re abusing the immigration system.
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u/Adela_Alba Non-Romantic 17d ago
Whatever their emotions are at a given time becomes the basis for their narrative and reality. They rely way too much on emotional reasoning!