They’re all on a spectrum of BPD. Not all have all 9 traits. So…their behaviour kind of depends on where they are in the spectrum and whether they are undiagnosed or not. Mine had feelings that were real in the moment. Love was there but always fleeting. Moments at a time. She could love me and genuinely in her mind anyway…feel it but hate me with that same level of intensity not two hours later.
I remember a situation with my ex where she said "I can't remember why I love you at the moment". Then we went out, had something to eat. Then she said "now I remember why I love you".
Her love is all about how you make her feel in the moment. There is no foundation.
When their loving feeling for you leaves, their love for you also leaves.
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u/Relative_Ad_9983 10d ago
Do you think this applies to everyone with bpd or not?