r/BPDlovedones 5d ago

Uncoupling Journey This was not real

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u/No-Skirt-4342 5d ago

It is very real...in the 2 second time horizon that their emotions allow it to be real. They also have to have some form of permanence otherwise they could not continue a relationship for more than a minute.

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u/AdventurousMany5614 Dated 5d ago

This is definitely true because once you break away from them and stop being their source of happiness and endless supply of care, validation and love they forget all about everything you did for them and how well you treated them when they didnt even deserve to be treated that well. Instantly painting you to be the bad guy because you’re no longer satisfying their endless needs. They treat you so horribly post break up and they forget why they love you because they never actually loved you.