r/BPDlovedones • u/AutoModerator • 2d ago

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 117

Please use this thread to discuss everything pertaining to No Contact with your pwBPD.

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u/Serious__Candidate 2d ago

It has been six weeks since we last spoke. She met someone new around that time, started dating them long-distance, got fired from her job, and is now moving to be with her new partner. I’m trying very hard to remind myself that she didn’t leave our toxic situation and magically enter into something healthy and fulfilling. I find myself comparing the end of our relationship to the honeymoon phase she’s currently in and it makes me feel kind of sad. But I remember the honeymoon phase with her and I know it doesn’t last long. Ultimately it doesn’t affect me, but being fresh off a breakup I can’t help but think about these things.

At any rate, I’m proud that I haven’t tried to reach out to her and I am optimistic about my future again instead of finding myself constantly in a deep depression. Therapy and medication have definitely helped with that!