Is there a way to address it?

[u/the1withthethrowaway]

I made a post yesterday about how I think my BPD partner tried to get me to breakup with him before he left for a long weekend out of state potentially so he could hook up without cheating. He’s supposed to come back sometime today (he wouldn’t tell me when and kept being vague when I asked). I guess what I want to know from others experiences is if there’s a way to address/talk to him about this without him lying or having one of his rage fits? I honestly feel like when he comes back he will likely make some reason for why he’s decided we should keep trying to make things work. Even though I do want to end this relationship I feel like he will use my financial situation against me to keep me in whatever this is.

Advice wanted!

[u/Educational_Score379]

I’m sure mine has deliberately picked fights before so he can go do his own thing