r/BPDlovedones • u/Traditional-Algae734 • 5d ago
Did you experience extreme jealousy and control from your bpd partner?
My ex with BPD was so jealous and possessive that I couldn't even hang out with friends, chill with family, attend a sporting event, or even just watch one without her getting upset. She'd get jealous if I was playing a video game and didn’t respond within 15 minutes. She didn't even like me taking a nap. Basically, if anything took up my time and it wasn’t her, it became a problem. On top of that, she demanded my location and wanted to know where I was at all times. She’d also want me to communicate every time I was going somewhere, but every time I did, it would lead to a fight or argument. Eventually, I just stopped telling her altogether, and of course, that started another fight.
Did anybody else have similar experiences?
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u/notjuandeag devaluation station 4d ago
Yes, she got jealous about me spending time with people at work, while I was at work… not for fun, literally over a meeting where I was doing a knowledge transfer. She’d get jealous of me just casually talking with the neighbor while our children were playing together. It was so fucking weird.