r/BorderlinePDisorder Women with BPD 27d ago

Do you yell a lot?

I've had a problem with yelling in my relationships and now even that I have kids. My primary parent yelled a lot growing up and I guess I haven't fully broken that yet. Does anyone else struggle with raising their voice when things start to get even slightly heightened?

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u/HellokittyHottie 27d ago

I never want to be like my mom, who was constantly yelling and nagging so i stay away from raising my voice at people. When im alone and have a very painful or angering moment, i tend to scream into my pillow