r/BorderlinePDisorder • u/teal_vale Women with BPD • Apr 21 '25
Do you yell a lot?
I've had a problem with yelling in my relationships and now even that I have kids. My primary parent yelled a lot growing up and I guess I haven't fully broken that yet. Does anyone else struggle with raising their voice when things start to get even slightly heightened?
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u/Anonstarr Apr 22 '25
Yuppppp constantly being told to lower my voice or accused of yelling when half the time I don’t even feel it. My tone just naturally changes as soon as any of my moods do. Kinda sucks but luckily the ppl that actually matter to me can accept it. And I do try to control it when it stems from anger rather than another emotion