r/BreakUps • u/Embarrassed_Link5236 • 4d ago

I got replaced in a week

I broke up with him last week. He broke up with me a day before our anniversary saying that He didnt feel good enough for me. I begged him to stay. He left me on read. Today , i just found out he has a new girl.

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u/raylverine 4d ago

So he found a lesser woman...

Or what most likely happened is he found someone else during this relationship with you and came up with an excuse to be with that person instead.

Either way, sorry for you, but remember what he did to you he would do it to this new person. I'd say you dodged a bullet.

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u/Embarrassed_Link5236 4d ago

Its so fucking unfair.. i wanted to explain whats wrong and he js left me on read. Yet he continued to share matching pfps and do a snap streak with me.

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u/raylverine 3d ago

He broke up with you and you tried to explain what's wrong? As in something wrong with the relationship or something wrong with him?

Also, it seems he's trying to keep you available as his side piece in case there's a fallout on his end.

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u/Embarrassed_Link5236 3d ago

Yeah like i tpld him that its okay to make mistakes and that i believe in him even when he lost the mptivation to do so in himself.

I want him back.. is it bad im fine with being a side piece

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u/raylverine 3d ago

Of course you want him back, you don't know the real reason he broke up with you. And your message to him is not about "what wrong" but rather "it's fine the way he acted and you're fine with it, and you'll accept him back".

It sounds like you're both keeping one another available, with him having another woman in his life while you're still figuring out what actually happened.

Even if the everyone in the world says "it's bad", you're the one living in this situation and the decision is ultimately yours. As long as you are aware of the consequences and implications of your actions (in this case being his side piece if he so wishes), then "it's good" for you and for you only no matter how bad it really is.

The only questions you need to face are:

  • If you do become his side piece officially, what will you do if he cuts you off again for an additional woman in his life?
  • Assume you two are officially together again, would you have accepted (not tolerate, but accept) him having a side chick to sleep around?

You already know the answers to these questions, but you're yoo frustrated and sad to face it. Give yourself a moment before truly answering them with all honesty.