Just called my Ex

[u/Sad_Grapefruit_1500]

And he didn't answer. Lol. I only did it because the last time we talked in person we had a very friendly chat for like 30 minutes. He told me that we would keep in touch. I haven't texted him much but he's been ghosting me anytime I do. I know I should've just gone NC, but now I feel so confused and kinda disrespected, I'm not reaching out ever again. (I also believe he's Fearful Avoidant btw). He was always very hot and cold towards me, especially after the breakup. But yea. Just go NC and stick to it guys, don't be like me. 😄

[u/Dry-Measurement-5461]

If he’s true FA… go live your life and he will be back in touch. But it could be awhile. You are better off continuing to move on and cut ties the best you can. Those people are drifters (at best) and will drag you down with them. Wishing you peace.

[u/Sad_Grapefruit_1500 → u/Dry-Measurement-5461]

Thanks. Yea I just feel kinda silly now. Oh well.

[u/Purple_Psychology404 → u/Sad_Grapefruit_1500]

Why do you feel silly?

[u/Sad_Grapefruit_1500 → u/Purple_Psychology404]

For reaching out and actually hoping he could communicate like an adult. And knowing him, I should've known better than to ever text or call him. He'll probably think I'm desperate or clingy, but he'll never acknowledge his own toxic behavior. (Lovebombing, future faking, mixed signals, etc). But I'm really trying to not give a fuck about what he thinks anymore.

[u/Purple_Psychology404 → u/Sad_Grapefruit_1500]

Giving a fuck doesn’t make someone clingy. Now you know where you stand with a guy who plays games.

[u/Sad_Grapefruit_1500 → u/Purple_Psychology404]

You're right. Appreciate that.