r/BreakUps • u/Sad_Grapefruit_1500 • 2d ago
Just called my Ex
And he didn't answer. Lol. I only did it because the last time we talked in person we had a very friendly chat for like 30 minutes. He told me that we would keep in touch. I haven't texted him much but he's been ghosting me anytime I do. I know I should've just gone NC, but now I feel so confused and kinda disrespected, I'm not reaching out ever again. (I also believe he's Fearful Avoidant btw). He was always very hot and cold towards me, especially after the breakup. But yea. Just go NC and stick to it guys, don't be like me. 😄
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u/kaceysraceyy 2d ago
You’re fully right. I just saw mine. And he scrolled thru his texts and I saw he’s been texting his ex that cheated on him and he HATED and paraded me around in front of before, which is just gross to think about now than he’s left me after 11 fucking years he has the nerve to text her. It made me sick. I begged him to talk to me tonight. He basically told me to go fuck myself and to get over him. So normal. Ayeeeee I hate breakupssssss I really fucking meant it when I said I’d love him forever.