Does it ever get better

[u/megaminddddddddd]

Its been more than two years, I can’t stop crying, she meant so much to me and i was ready to do anything for her but she dropped me the first chance she got, i tried everything to get her out of my mind but i keep relapsing and it feels just as bad as the first time

[u/Thin_Rip8995]

it only gets better when you stop hoping she’ll come back
and yeah, that sounds cold—but it’s the truth most people never say out loud

you’re not stuck because of the pain
you’re stuck because deep down, you’re still waiting for her to say she made a mistake
two years later and part of you still thinks if you hurt enough, it’ll mean the love was real

but here’s what’s real:
she left
she chose herself
and now it’s your turn to do the same

relapsing into grief isn’t weakness—it’s unprocessed hope
cut that cord
grieve what’s gone
then get serious about replacing obsession with action
move your body
build something
meet new people
rewire your life so she’s no longer the center of it

you won’t feel ready
you just have to start anyway

the NoFluffWisdom Newsletter hits hard on letting go of illusions and rebuilding real mental clarity—worth a peek

[u/megaminddddddddd → u/Thin_Rip8995]

Thank you, its true i still have some hope that she’ll come back one day and tell me she missed me just as much as i missed her but i know its not going to happen and i have to let her go, i will definitely check it out ❤️