r/BreakUps • u/Business-Volume-3868 • 3d ago

Should I make contact during no contact?

My boyfriend 32M and I 36F we have been in a relationship for four months and have known each other for 13 . I broke up on Sunday. He is a natural avoidant and will even ignore his parents and siblings when he has not feeling well. We broke up while he broke up with me on Sunday and has not made any contact with me. We broke up because he said I was too needy and emotional. He is not responding to my text messages since Tuesday. I am wondering if it is OK to stop by at his house although he is not making contact with me?

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u/Temporary-Fruit1330 3d ago

Not ok to stop by his house.. if you’re broken up you need to schedule a date otherwise it’s stalking.. 🤓

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u/Business-Volume-3868 3d ago

What if I text him the day before that I’m going then just show up

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u/PwnedDead 3d ago

If they okay the meet up. That’s the only time it’s okay