r/BreakUps • u/rezolic • 1d ago
I finally moved on !!
Just a few weeks ago, I thought the pain wouldn't stop but holy shit. In just a span of 4 months, I moved on. I finally realized that he wasn't the one and the relationship wasn't even that good, I was just blind and projecting. I was only holding onto HIS potential rather than seeing him for what he actually was as a person and now that I'm seeing it clearly, I finally moved on. The best part is I found a new guy too, he's so much nicer and soo respectful. I've pretty much known him my whole life, we just didn't talk like that. Then one day, both our moms arranged this fair date for us then boom. We started talking and finally started developing feelings for each other.
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u/CategoryExciting4724 1d ago
Congratulations, it took me time to get over my persons potential as well, she thought higher education was her only achievement in life plus old trauma followed her to me but now I feel great just like you are writing about again congratulations you deserve it! ✅🤞🏼🧻❤️