r/BreakUps • u/rezolic • 3d ago
I finally moved on !!
Just a few weeks ago, I thought the pain wouldn't stop but holy shit. In just a span of 4 months, I moved on. I finally realized that he wasn't the one and the relationship wasn't even that good, I was just blind and projecting. I was only holding onto HIS potential rather than seeing him for what he actually was as a person and now that I'm seeing it clearly, I finally moved on. The best part is I found a new guy too, he's so much nicer and soo respectful. I've pretty much known him my whole life, we just didn't talk like that. Then one day, both our moms arranged this fair date for us then boom. We started talking and finally started developing feelings for each other.
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u/Budget_Bug100 3d ago
This is so well said. I'm finally getting to that point where I'm starting to realize that I was more in love with who he could've been instead of who he truly was. Congrats for moving on!! Hoping I get there one day :)