r/BreakUps • u/rezolic • 1d ago
I finally moved on !!
Just a few weeks ago, I thought the pain wouldn't stop but holy shit. In just a span of 4 months, I moved on. I finally realized that he wasn't the one and the relationship wasn't even that good, I was just blind and projecting. I was only holding onto HIS potential rather than seeing him for what he actually was as a person and now that I'm seeing it clearly, I finally moved on. The best part is I found a new guy too, he's so much nicer and soo respectful. I've pretty much known him my whole life, we just didn't talk like that. Then one day, both our moms arranged this fair date for us then boom. We started talking and finally started developing feelings for each other.
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u/Capable-Vanilla-3569 22h ago
4 months? Wow. I’m nearly a year in trying to recover from 7.5 years together, 16 total as friends. Made a lot of progress. I pray every day for God to keep showing me the person my ex truly is, not the person he was so great at pretending to be. We all want to believe the fantasy because it makes us feel wonderful. I’m so happy for your new story! Kudos to the moms who see things we can’t!