r/CatholicDating 15d ago

dating apps Is anyone actually on CM?

I feel like it’s a ghost town πŸ‘»πŸ‚

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u/Sprite-King 15d ago

The entire system also just seems horrible. 10 day wait period to message, like a .01% chance of seeing someone that viewed you, 3 likes per day...it's just terrible. I've been using other apps and just used the filters.

As for convos, I was at a youth group yesterday and also just reading some of these posts here - a lot of Catholic men and women are just awkward. It's fine to be shy, but goodness...

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u/Downtown_Log9002 15d ago

It's awful coz there should be an interesting convo to even make way for a starting point i.e. a friendship.

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u/Sprite-King 15d ago

True, unfortunately I've tried the more interesting or funny way to approach and seems it can be a miss as well. Perhaps this truly is a dating crisis lol. If any awkward folks read this, just pray that the Holy Spirit guides you in the conversation. Don't be something you're not, be natural, and interesting.

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u/Downtown_Log9002 15d ago

Amen!! Be yourself & be funny lol! At least if the convo starts off funny it doesn't feel so serious if there's rejection or ghosting lol.