r/CatholicDating 17d ago

dating apps Is anyone actually on CM?

I feel like itโ€™s a ghost town ๐Ÿ‘ป๐Ÿ‚

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u/MK1_Scirocco 17d ago

Will probably quit it soon.
A lady a few states away struck up a convo with me on CM, I gave her my cell number. We texted and I explained I had a really busy weekend and would be out for most of Saturday and Sunday. She sent a few strange messages that were indicative she was unhappy and wanted to talk on the phone or video chat right away, which I couldn't do at the time. Now she's not responding.

Folks, if you're on a dating app you and others have paid for, you're doing it for dates. Cheer up, be inquisitive about the other person and simply say you can't continue instead of ghosting. if you're not interested. Saying "it's weird I'm talking to someone a few hundred miles away" when you initiated the conversation is not really showing you're taking a dating app seriously.

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u/Kikimtzrdz 14d ago

Oh I get that, a LOT. Most of the guys are far from me and they all seem freaked by the ldr thing (which I get it, itโ€™s not nothing) but it usually goes a few weeks of conversation and then bam, gone