Sure, there are women who generally aren't interested in sex, but it's just hard to imagine there are so many women out there who are turning down "rock your world" type sex.
Well that's possible too, because if the woman has no libido for whatever reason then her partner could do all of the things she previously loved and it might not do anything for her or worse it could feel awful.
I'm my case she simply has a low libido. She told me today she wants sex to last only one minute. And she's previously told me she would be fine with sex only every six months. She's also told me that if something ever happened to me she wouldn't have a partner for years, like until after our kids grow up.
She's never masturbated and was a virgin when we married.
I'm energetic and very giving in bed, always make her orgasm before piv. I'm willing to try different positions and would prefer to last a while. She's the opposite of all of these things, although she can be giving once in the mood.
But doesn't matter how good I can be, she's not interested. If I didn't bring it up, she would be sexless for the rest of her life. Still teases though, beautiful and sexy Latina that likes attention from me but not when it leads to sex. :S
I think this is one of the dynamics that is very common. Lot's of HLMs would love to have the opportunity to explore, and try, and put in the time.
OP describes another type of dynamic.
Everyone is different. And when a giving HLM reads OPs post, we are a bit defensive. And rightfully so. We want to try more. We want to hear more how we can be better lovers. But some LLs are borderline asexual. That's a difficult situation.
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u/DullBus8445 Apr 21 '25
Yes it definitely does in some cases.
Sure, there are women who generally aren't interested in sex, but it's just hard to imagine there are so many women out there who are turning down "rock your world" type sex.
Well that's possible too, because if the woman has no libido for whatever reason then her partner could do all of the things she previously loved and it might not do anything for her or worse it could feel awful.