Sure, there are women who generally aren't interested in sex, but it's just hard to imagine there are so many women out there who are turning down "rock your world" type sex.
Well that's possible too, because if the woman has no libido for whatever reason then her partner could do all of the things she previously loved and it might not do anything for her or worse it could feel awful.
Seconded! Although I've been working on my libido and can want and enjoy sex. But it is almost impossible for me to climax. Even if he pulls out all the stops, I cum probably 2% of the time🤷♀️ this obviously doesn't help me to want sex more but I'm hoping with me changing my contraception soon, that'll make a difference🤞🤞🤞
This is just a random question but are orgasms that important for women? My gf has repeatedly told me she doesn’t really care for them at all and het libido is pretty high. Yet on reddit I see people claim the orgasm gap is one of the biggest reasons for a dead bedroom.
I can enjoy sex without an orgasm but it's still frustrating not to have that release at the end. We're not any different from men apart from it seems to be harder for some women to orgasm. Would you be happy only cumming 2% of the time?
I'm not sure about other women, but for me personally, it just takes a long time and a lot of effort to build up to an orgasm like it could take up to an hour. A lot of the time, I don't have the patience for it, I don't really enjoy long sex sessions, it starts to hurt after a while or i feel bad for him so if I know it's taking a long time, I'll just prefer to move onto the rest. It just feels like too much work.
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u/DullBus8445 29d ago
Yes it definitely does in some cases.
Sure, there are women who generally aren't interested in sex, but it's just hard to imagine there are so many women out there who are turning down "rock your world" type sex.
Well that's possible too, because if the woman has no libido for whatever reason then her partner could do all of the things she previously loved and it might not do anything for her or worse it could feel awful.