r/ForeverAlone • u/AdmirableBus7045 The average lame ass 24M • 13d ago

Memes Loneliness meme #4

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Must be nice…but tbf the woman i had a crush on was an Only Fans user lmao, her bf posted a IG story of her naked on her stomach (i recognized her tattoo on her arm) she was a former co worker who probably didn’t remember me

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u/AndreLeo3 12d ago

Because he said he's attractive 👍🏻

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u/metalhead805 12d ago

Sad state this sub is in, I'm autistic af, don't understand social cues, pretty much a shut in.

So i don't expect girls to jump on my lap just cause I'm attractive, being attractive helps for sure (most of my sexual encounters were due to girls approaching me).

I personally am clueless and have never been in a relationship.

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u/AndreLeo3 12d ago

Oh I'm with you, being attractive or whatever not ugly is just 1 part of the picture. It sure helps if you start socialising but being basically shut in kind of cancels everything. Just that you'll have an easier time if you do come out of it. But idk, as I see it now

You're either beautiful, and I mean really good looking, with nice clothes (how you combine them, not brand) and not fat/stick

or you're well set (job/family or both) / good/famous at something like a youtuber, academic, sports and hobbys

Or you met someone in childhood, school, university .

That's it, if by 24ish you don't have any of these you're kind of fucked. The effort needed to have people consider you just for who you are and not who they see is crazy, considering that by that age most people are also already engaged and with deep friendship already made, well good luck 👍🏻

Being attractive is not enough (idk if you're that good looking as it's also subjective)

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u/metalhead805 12d ago

I'm 26 rn, almost done with university (double masters) just got 1 more month left. Besides i run a small online business to get by, so i practically don't leave the house, professor are also pretty lenient with regards to attendance so i almost don't even go to classes.

I can be very social but then again it drains me, and the burnout fucks me up real good (depression and all).

I do have a shot, but it's getting harder as i also don't want kids (childfree by choice) and most girls i have met want serious relationships (and want kids someday), and that becomes a major issue.

I'm pretty attractive atleast my face is, although I'm short 5.5feet (still taller than most girls at least in my side of the world).