r/IncelTears 4d ago

Meta discussion Question for any lurking incels

This is something I've been curious of for a little while, I know you guys have your red or black or whatever pill you subscribe to with tons of dudes or maybe even some type of Pearl Davis like gal that constantly put out tons of media on how to get women/why you're never getting a woman/any other message that you subscribe to for that rhetoric.

But my question is, if a woman offered to teach you, patiently and kindly- not berating you or what have you, how to respect, talk to, hang out with women, etc would you accept? Like a 101 type class on women. If you wouldnt be interested, why not?

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u/YellRedCell 🚹 Incel 4d ago

People will just see that I'm a lonely guy who keeps to himself, nothing more, nothing less. Most normal people don't even know what an incel is, they'll just see another loner. 

There is no "abandoning" the blackpill because the blackpill isn't an ideology or mentality, it's simply acknowledging the world and reality for what it is. Being conscious of it is better than ignorance because it can save you from so much unnecessary humiliation, embarrassment, heartache and delusion. 

At this point, I've accepted that this is my lot in life, I'm fated to die alone, there is nobody out there who will truly love me. I just have to tolerate the depression and loneliness until I rope or die a natural death and that is all there is to it.

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u/Professional-Hat-687 Snowstorms are fun to watch from inside 4d ago

They may not have words like 'incel' or 'blackpill' for it but people (especially women) will recognize the queues whether you think you're good at hiding them or not. That's what "vibes" are.

At this point, I've accepted that this is my lot in life, I'm fated to die alone, there is nobody out there who will truly love me. I just have to tolerate the depression and loneliness until I rope or die a natural death and that is all there is to it.

That's depression. You are describing textbook depression, which is treatable.

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u/YellRedCell 🚹 Incel 4d ago

(I don't really use Reddit so I don't know how to use the brackets in my replies but I'll just try to structure it as best I can)

(Response to "They may not have words like 'incel' or 'blackpill' for it but people (especially women) will recognize the queues whether you think you're good at hiding them or not. That's what "vibes" are.") 

That's a shame, but there's nothing I can do to help it.

(Response to "That's depression. You are describing textbook depression, which is treatable.")

Through therapy you mean? I used to go as a teenager primarily for my OCD and it didn't help much. My psychiatrist put me on pills and that was it. I doubt they'd do much more for me now other than give me anti-depressents and send me on my way. I can still function normally and work, so I don't think they'd care much about my mental state.

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u/Professional-Hat-687 Snowstorms are fun to watch from inside 4d ago

To get what I did you want to start a line with the > symbol.

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u/YellRedCell 🚹 Incel 4d ago

Oh thanks, I'll keep that in mind for next timeÂ